Being in the Now

being in the Now has tremendous consequences for relationships. I just hm... dumped ... really... someone that couldn't be in the Now. He was just too scared and that drove me bananas. We'd be talking or sharing or being close and he would just get out by talking, fidgeting, etc.

When living in Hawaii, it is normal to relate closely to someone, so a person who keeps on "jumping out" of communication feels very jarring and iffy.

When he left, I felt so much relief.